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Question for liberals and/or democrats.?
I browse the net on various topics for the sole purpose of seeing people debate about them and I have read many retarded blanket statements from both liberals and conservatives (such as all conservatives are racist and all liberals are welfare moochers) but I have only ever read conservatives call the under side American or say they were not real Americans.
For example last night I was looking through the comments of an article and one poster said California only gets 75 cents worth of every dollar they give while another poster responded that the 25 cents is going to "real Americans" presumably in a conservative and/or republican state. Have you ever had someone call you American or say you weren't a real American? How did you respond?
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Why this generalizations-why this cruel generalization? Why this ladies don't get help from even online forum?
Why there is generalzed notions that all in-laws (esp. Mother in laws and sister in laws) are bad and all daughter in laws are goody goody! I
Why people become so much negative and defensive when someone wants to address or acknoledge daughter in laws bad behavior towards inlaws. When someone post in online forums that she is being treated badly by her husband's mother or sister, she will get tons of respnses and advices from other posters in forums, but unfortunately if some sister wants to address that she is being treated badly by her brother's wife then all the posters literally bash her.
In one forum, a girl mentioned that her brother's wife is abusive and cruel towards her and she sent a message to all her facebook friends and wrote bad things about her character to spoil her image amongst her facebook friends and also spread rumors about her to other relatives. To this some poster cruelly answered her - "It would be nice if these needy dam SIL's would know their place and stay the hell out of their brothers life...like I wish mine would ." One poster wrote, husband's sisters deserved to be treated like that...... And many wrote that maybe you interfered in her life so she reciprocated like this.
My question is why this generalized notion that all sister-in-laws are intruders in their brother's wife. Ain't in the above story brother's wife interfered in her life by spoiling her image amongst her facebook friends. But our society is so cruel when it comes to addressing evil daughter in laws and only husband's family is believed to be evil. And its sad that even in forums such ladies are not supported by other posters.
Pls note - I don't have brother but I am interested to become family counselor so I am looking up to various family forums on internet - (you can call me an internet worm or addicted to reading family forums). Reading other's forums can help me analyze relations so. But in thousands of forums I have noticed this that women posting against inlaws get good response, support and bunch or advices from other posters but if someone post against son's/bro's wife they will be bashed even though their concerns are genuine
I mean to say that if women complaints that her husband's family treat her bad people believe her because majority of people have generalized notions that inlaws are bad and they often treat the daughter in law bad.
But if someone says (esp. if mother or sister) that they are being abused or treated badly by their son's or brother's wife, why people don't listen to them or assume that it is they who must be at fault. Even if they write their problems in online forum, posters often bash them. And I had observed this with most of the online forums.
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Help me analyze why this cruel generalizations?
Why there is generalzed notions that all in-laws (esp. Mother in laws and sister in laws) are bad and all daughter in laws are goody goody! I
Why people become so much negative and defensive when someone wants to address or acknoledge daughter in laws bad behavior towards inlaws. When someone post in online forums that she is being treated badly by her husband's mother or sister, she will get tons of respnses and advices from other posters in forums, but unfortunately if some sister wants to address that she is being treated badly by her brother's wife then all the posters literally bash her.
In one forum, a girl mentioned that her brother's wife is abusive and cruel towards her and she sent a message to all her facebook friends and wrote bad things about her character to spoil her image amongst her facebook friends and also spread rumors about her to other relatives. To this some poster cruelly answered her - "It would be nice if these needy dam SIL's would know their place and stay the hell out of their brothers life...like I wish mine would ." One poster wrote, husband's sisters deserved to be treated like that...... And many wrote that maybe you interfered in her life so she reciprocated like this.
My question is why this generalized notion that all sister-in-laws are intruders in their brother's wife. Ain't in the above story brother's wife interfered in her life by spoiling her image amongst her facebook friends. But our society is so cruel when it comes to addressing evil daughter in laws and only husband's family is believed to be evil. And its sad that even in forums such ladies are not supported by other posters.
Pls note - I don't have brother but I am interested to become family counselor so I am looking up to various family forums on internet - (you can call me an internet worm or addicted to reading family forums). Reading other's forums can help me analyze relations so. But in thousands of forums I have noticed this that women posting against inlaws get good response, support and bunch or advices from other posters but if someone post against son's/bro's wife they will be bashed even though their concerns are genuine
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